Odd

ok so I might not be an expert on this because of my lack of experience but man have I been seeing the weirdest couples lately. I mean some people can do way better. haha, maybe it's because I can't see it from that person's point of view but still! Sometimes the girl is too good for the guy or the guy is too good for the girl. I guess it's pretty shallow judging relationships by how they look but I know the people... it's not like they're complete strangers. Teenagers... we're so young and we don't know that there's so much for us and we don't see it now because most of us live for the moment. I see a lot of girls give theirselves away way too easily and it makes me disappointed. The thing is, I'm happy when they're happy but what happens when they get hurt? In my head I ask, "then why did you even start in the first place? And why do you keep getting yourself into this when you're only going to get hurt again?". it's really sad I have to admit. Guys these days need to realize how precious, beautiful, and frail girls are. No matter what they've gone through or what horrible things they've done. whatever the case, girls are special and should be treated well with the utmost care. Guys who see girls like that are the true gentlemen. I go around campus and see plenty of PDA. it makes me wonder if they show enough unconditional love and compassion to people who are not their girlfriend/boyfriend. most of the time, no but who am I say? I believe a successful relationship always need that strong foundation of friendship. Whether it's before dating or during, it's always present. That's what makes it last, rather than the typical "I like you, you like me, let's be together". yeah. That's just how it is in high school, right? there's nothing that can be done. it's out of my control.

Wise man say, only fools rush in, but I can't help falling in love with you - Elvis Presley

Music really plays a big role in this. Songs on the radio about love and sex give people the reason to get themselves into a relationship. Imagine not hearing those songs at all on the radio! I don't think people would know about problems with relationships especially with the younger generation. I would understand when it's older teenagers in high school... but 6th graders!? or maybe even younger! oh goodness. yeah... it's not even a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. heck, it's not even puppy love. haha. I really like how some people only have the cute, puppy love of the relationship and not the other part that should come with it. And that's the thing! relationships in high school is only puppy love and then when it gets boring, there's a breakup.

I keep complaining about having a boyfriend... it's like "then why don't I give it a try and stop judging?" if I get into it I'll end up trying to change the person to fit him to be my ideal boyfriend. So there's no point in trying at all. So i'll wait until college. or better yet after college. I want the REAL thing. HA, whatever that is! there's too many boys... I want a MAN. haha yes that's my answer. boys in high school are too stupid. ok let me rephrase that... as teenagers, we're still growing, especially when we're christian. We have to grow in faith and in love and getting into a relationship will only weaken your growth in your relationship with God. Also in order a relationship to work, other than friendship, maturity needs to be present. Everyone is at a different level of maturity... and that's what makes me see odd couples. sometimes one is more mature than the other. it's like... there are way better guys out there for you than the one you're with right now!

I'm making myself sound like I don't want a boyfriend. I have my moments where I wish I was in someone's arms but my mind is telling me that's just lust. it's wrong. There isn't a day where I don't find myself wishing I have a lover. It's all because I see it all the time. Movies, celebrities, TV shows, books, everywhere. But thank God I found the the greatest love. It gives me a reason to not feel sad to be single. I love being single! ;] no obligations whatsoever to any guy.

Love is patient, love is kind...